But in this context, the word slut feels important. Like a kind of reclaiming. In a essay published in the Wall Street Journal last week, a male academic went on at quite some length about how women giving sex up to men too easily was the reason that they were ending up unmarried.
Women have sexual desire. Men have emotional needs. I got engaged at 24 and married earlier this year at Before I met my husband, I was a bit of a slut. I had flings, I had one night stands, I had sex. I went to fetish clubs and sex parties and took naked pictures and posted them online.
Anyway, when I met my husband I really liked him. I wanted him to be my boyfriend and there were several other women in my friendship group who felt similarly. So I had to make it happen. Really, really slutty. I wore the most obscene dress you can imagine it was made of black spandex and power mesh and it showed about an acre of cleavage. I flirted, I implied very strongly that I was filthy in bed, and you know what?
I had sex. I do not know where the traditional advice that having sex with a man will make him disappear came from, but I can only assume that it singularly applies to people who are extremely bad at sex.
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In what world would doing something really fun and really gratifying with someone make you never want to see them again? I have no doubt in my mind that the reason my now husband became my then boyfriend was because I decided, on the 23rd of December , that I was going to screw his brains out. Decent guys, the kind who might be marriage material, do not write women off because they have had sex with them. So actually, having sex is the perfect filter. So please, take my advice. Slutty girls get married too.
